self reflection on a sunday morning April 11, 2021

 self reflection on a sunday morning/ reminder to myself:

 

ramdam mo na talaga ang hirap ng buhay now..kaya need ng magsipag, magtipid (from san mig light,to ginebra na muna, 1 shot lang, pampatulog lang..hahaha) at magpakatino.. magastos sa gasolina at toll, if walang direksyon ang buhay mo at kung saan saan ka napunta..bahay-work oks na muna yun..

tsaka na muna yang mga materyal na bagay..tyaga na muna sa kotseng luma, ok pa naman is ela, konting ayos at hilamos lang, sexyng sexy na ulit si ela..maayos pa naman ang makina..at bihira ka na makakita ng 130hp na sedan now..

Ang impt is yung health mo at health ng family mo, so higit sa lahat, alagaan ang physical at mental health.. magpalakas, magexercise..at umiwas sa stress at toxic na relasyon..

pag hindi ka na pinapahalagahan, or hindi ka naman napapaligaya at hindi naman naibibigay sa yo mga needs mo, at wala namang naiitutulong or naibibigay sa yo at inaabuso ka lang, iwan mo na, at humanap ng iba..dapat give & take lahat ng relasyon para happy.. pandemic now, maraming naghahanap ng makakapitan.. ikaw nga naghahanap din ng makakapitan di ba?

Makakahanap karin ng makakapitang sexying partner na magtatyaga sa itsura mo..at magpapaligaya sa yo.. tutal medyo pogi karin naman pag bagong ligo..hehehe. makakapitan hindi sa pera, kasi madami ka naman non (law of attraction, wag mo sabihing wala kang pera, sabihin mo lagi madami kang pera, pra yung pera lumapit sa yo,,law of attraction daw yan sabi ni google,,hehehe), 

 

yung makakapitan mo emotionally, yung magchecheer up sa yo, yung ibibigay din needs mo, yung lagi ka lalambingin pag pagod ka na.. yung walang atubiling tutulungan ka linisin ang bahay mo, or ipagrocery ka (syempre ikaw magbigay ng budget, sya lang maggrocery kasi wala ka ng time dun, laking help narin non), yung aalagaan ka..yung makakapitan mo pag down ka..kasi surely, aalagaan mo rin sya, at ibibigay morin lahat ng needs nya,, so yung makakapitan nyo ang isa't isa..

maraming nalulungkot now, surely, me makakaappreciate ng value mo.. yung sirang baterya nga ng kotse me trade-in value, ikaw pa kaya? kakapalit ko lang kasi ng car battery kaya naisip ko lahat me value kahit sirang battery, need mo lang hanapin yung makakaapreciate ng value mo..hehehe

also, wag masyado mainit ang ulo, at matutong magpasencia.. lalo na sa mga taong alam mo naman na nakakatulong sa yo..pag me nakatampuhan ka rin noon, or me naooffend ka , or nang-offend sayo, kalimutan mo na yan at mauna ka ng magsabi ng sorry, sabi nga ni King Ecbert- "the Greatest Christian Virtue Alfred, is Humility “ ..

Also, dapat talaga me sense of urgency na now sa work at sa mga bagay na need asikasuhin lalong lalo na sa mga bahay.. iready mo na lahat dapat, para pag nalift ang ECQ, ready ka na..

ang impt now is magpalakas, magpalakas at magpalakas, hindi mo alam kung hanggang saan tong pandemya nato.. puno ang hospital now.. bawal magkasakit..

almost 3 weeks ka nagkasakit ng matindi this March, halos 2weeks ka hindi makabangon, feeling mo matetepok ka na talaga, kaya nga ininform mo na mga pinsang buo mo na hindi mo na kaya..at least maisugod ka man lang sa ospital kung sakali..kasi wala naman halos nag-alaga sa yo kundi anak mo lang na 14yo, kasi nga wala kang partner sa buhay, kung ano ano na naiisip mo nung nagdedeliryo ka ng 1week at di na talaga makabangon, halos 23hrs a day ka ng tulog, paulit ulit na panaginip mo,hahaha. 

 

then actually ikaw pa nagulat ng isang araw, nawala nalang lagnat mo, then mga ilang araw pa, umayos narin ng kusa paghinga mo.. BUHAY KA PA! Cheers! hahaha. in your heart, ang sumagip sa buhay mo ay Neozep, Biogesic, sangkatutak na vitamins, Gatorade at Pocari Sweat, at saging at lugaw, dahil wala ka talaga ganang kumain kahit pa hindi naman nawala ang panlasa mo..i lost 10lbs in 2 weeks, so deep in your heart, yung lugaw is essential talaga, lifesaver pa nga eh.. so alam mo na bawal na bawal ka ulit magkasakit..ok? lalo na wala kang jowa mag-aalaga sa yo.. 

Mahina talaga sobra ang lahat ng business now.. so need mo talaga alagaan ang mga valued clients mo na natitira, habang wait mo rin magstart ulit ng operations yung iba mong clients..at wag tumigil humanap ng new clients...need mo ideliver ng mabilis yang mga purchase orders nayan..at policy namin, kung ano gusto ng clients, Go yan!

alagaan din ng husto ang mga resellers, oks lang din na magbigay ng malaking discount sa mga resellers, at ibigay din mga request nila, basta kumita ng kahit konti lang, oks na yun, tutal sila naman nagpakahirap maghanap ng client, para lahat kumita..share the blessings dapat..

basta wala ng hiya hiya, impt makabenta ng mga soldering stations na yan, soldering iron, solder wires, solder bars, at iba pang need ng clients..mga good quality naman ang mga items at low cost pa, so hindi nakakahiyang ibenta, win-win pa kasi nakatipid pa clients sa items mo.. hindi mo mabebenta yang mga stocks na yan, if kayo kayo lang nakakaalam na nagbebenta kayo nyan, so impt na need mo ipagsigawan sa buong mundo na distributor kayo nyan..

pag wala ka naman control , like sa politika at sa mga gyera gyera , wag ka na makialam at magcomment.. pag me nabasa kang hindi mo gusto regarding sa politika, yaan mo na yun..kesa makipagdebate online..mastress ka lang..

at itapon mo na sa basura, yung mga hindi mo need, pra wala masyado excess baggage at iniintiding kalat, like mga kung anong anik anik dyan na nakatambak lang sa bahay, tatambayan lang yan ng ipis at lamok..

also, pag sinabing basura, including yung emotional garbage, like hatred, jealousy at self-pity.. ,madami kang nagawang mali at pagkukulang sa buhay mo... pero dapat move-on! at gawin mo na dapat asikasuhin, now na!

kasama sa excess baggage is yung iniisip mo parin mga failed relationships mo sa mga babae mo na kasesexy at ang gaganda, at ang titino, na nanghihinayang ka now.. na sising sisi ka dahil alam mong ikaw ang me kasalanan bakit kayo nagkahiwalay.. now, nganga ka, hehehe, move on kana dyan!

pati sa mga babaeng obviously is ginamit ka lang, patawarin mo na sarili mo sa katangahan mo.. kung napatawad mo yung ibang tao, dapat napatawad mo narin sarili mo..pra wala kang excess baggage, para sa mental health mo yan..

sabi nga ni Ragnar Lothbrok- “Don't waste your time looking back. You're not going that way."

uulitin ko, ang impt now is magpalakas, magpalakas at magpalakas..health ang pinaka impt now.. at magpakatino at magtipid, at kumayod ng mas matindi..pahalagahan ng husto ang mga tao na pinapahalagahan ka rin..

so need mo talaga magpasalamat ng paulit ulit sa mga suppliers/principals/financiers mo na nagtitiwala sa yo thru the years ,like yung mga boss mo sa Hanstar, Boschstatic control, Anyi, Cheerman, Edysn USA, BSD-Kilews taiwan, Vessel Japan, at Chemtronics USA, dahil if wala sila or if nasira tiwala nila sa yo, yari ka, wala kang items na ibebenta at wala ka pambayad ng kuryente.. hahaha

 

Higit sa lahat, kahit hindi tayo masyado religious na tao, naniniwala tayo sa 1 Supreme Being/ Creator natin.. magpasalamat tayo sa KANYA na up to now is buhay pa tayo..at healthy again, gaya nga ng sabi ni El Pres Mike Ilagan- "Ang importante buhay ka pa! ".. hahaha

 

#soldering #Chemtronics #Edsyn #vesseltool #Magpalakas #Lugawisessential

"If you do the work you get rewarded. There are no shortcuts in life" - Michael Jordan

 

self reflection 10/27/2020- Fail Early, Fail Often, And Fail Forward - FAIL FAST!

- Korek ka dyan pareng will smith, parang advise din siguro ng mga professional manginginom..if panget yung event sa club na napasukan, bache na agad,at punta na sa kabilang club..kesa mag aksaya pa ng oras at budget sa hindi ka naman happy,,

 Sa business naman,,if sa kabila ng malaki narin nainvest mong capital, pero wala talaga, hindi naabot ang expectations ng business after opening ng ilang months ( meaning Lugi..), gaya ng advise ng mga successful businessman, isara mo na agad, gaano man kasakit sa bulsa at sa pride,.. kesa naman padagdag ng padagdag ang losses, at baka hindi ka na makarecover if patalagin mo pa losses mo at isip ka ulit ng panibagong business..as sooner or later, makakaisip karin ng patok na business.. 

Kumbaga sa gyera is if sa umpisa palang is talagang natatalo ko na sa Battle is tumakbo ka na,at wag ka magpakapoetic at magpakamatay...RETREAT na!,..so you can recoup your forces, and live & fight another day.. sabi nga sa Vikings eh, the odds should be in your favor.. it is our way..

 GANITO rin siguro sa Lovelife.. gaya nga ng kabilin bilinan na advise ni Prof Jeff Banaticla- " Wag na wag ka maghahabol sa babae, sila dapat ang maghahabol sa yo".. so if sa tingin mo ay dehado ka na, at hindi ka talaga bet ng babae, or nagkakalokohan na, or pinapaasa ka lang or malabo na sa SIMULA pa lang.. gaano mo man kamahal yung girl, at malaki na nagagastos mo sa mga date at Toll.. masakit man sa feelings at sa pride. e move on na agad..at hanap na agad ng iba...habang fresh ka pa, pra hindi ka kapusin ng oras at mahanap mo na bet ka, na bet morin, at yung Success at Happiness na inaasam asam mo at main goal mo sa buhay..

        prof Jeff Banaticla at the extreme right..
 

FAIL FAST!

ref:

Will Smith

 https://medium.com/@davidbrown_70853/fail-early-fail-often-and-fail-forward-58b591f17132

 

June 22, 2020

to Myself- imbes na magmukmok..pag Panget ka, daanin mo sa Sipag! stupid!

wala ng choice.. need ng iovercome ang fear.. and get out of your comfort zone.. and hopefully you will find success

taken from: 
https://www.success.com/10-ways-to-overcome-fear-and-break-out-of-your-comfort-zone/

10 Ways to Overcome Fear and Break Out of Your Comfort Zone

By YEC | August 1, 2017

 

Fear is a natural and essential part of growth. Every time we consciously choose to step outside of our comfort zone, the next uncomfortable thing becomes a little bit easier.

We asked members of the Young Entrepreneur Council how they take those small but powerful daily steps. Here’s what they said.

1. Take nothing for granted.

I’ve learned a lot through suffering, as much as I have through success. And I’m grateful for the suffering the most. Going through a divorce, splitting ways with a wayward business partner, working to the point of sickness… you name it. Suffering has led me to a place where I try to take nothing for granted. When you avoid taking your business and relationships for granted, it’s much harder to be complacent.

—Robby Berthume, Bull & Beard

2. Switch up your routine.

Routines are as much about comfort as they are about efficiency. Each day, I switch up my routine in small but meaningful ways. I’ll walk a new route to work, stop for lunch at different times of the day and take the stairs instead of the elevator. Small shake-ups in my routine lead to meeting new people and seeing different sights, which help kick-start ideas for both my work and personal life.

—Kim Kaupe, ZinePak

3. Move toward your fears.

I found that the things I’m afraid to do are often the things that have the greatest potential to expand my life. Now when I feel fear, it’s usually an indicator that I need to do that thing I’m afraid of. Making a commitment to lean into that each day has been really uncomfortable at times, but it has also been responsible for a lot of great memories and a deep level of personal satisfaction.

—Mark Krassner, Expectful

4. Give up control.

It might not be an everyday thing, but giving up bits of control of my company takes me out of my comfort zone. Hiring someone to run our social media, delegating new inquiries to speak to someone on my staff or letting my employees take the lead on client projects have all taken me out of my comfort zone, which is important.

—Leila Lewis, Be Inspired PR

5. Try something new until you feel comfortable.

Anything that I struggle with, I keep trying different approaches until I’m no longer scared of it. Sometimes it takes a while to get comfortable, so I try different approaches daily, or just keep at it until it becomes comfortable. Then I move to the next uncomfortable thing.

—Drew Hendricks, Buttercup

6. Ask the questions other people don’t like to.

I want to know what’s up with my employees, customers and everything going on in between. This means having frequent and open conversations with my employees and getting customers on the phone to find out how they liked their experiences with my business. I ask tough questions to address real issues and promote growth for my business.

—Zev Herman, Superior Lighting

7. Start conversations with strangers.

I really enjoy talking to people, and I’ve found that striking up a conversation with the person next to me, while I’m waiting for transportation or enjoying a meal at a lunch place’s bar seating, is a great way to overcome shyness with new people. It’s also a good way to learn amazing things about the world and the people in it.

—Matt Doyle, Excel Builders

8. Agree to something you wouldn’t normally consider.

Sometimes when someone offers me something that I would normally refuse, I like to surprise myself by saying yes, whether it is something business-related, like trying a new strategy, or accepting an invitation to join an amateur sports team on the weekend. Even if it doesn’t work out, I always learn something from the experience.

—Russell Kommer, eSoftware Associates Inc

9. Get in front of the camera.

I get in front of the camera on a daily basis. Creating videos always challenges me to present information in the best way possible, step out of my comfort zone and put myself out there on the internet. Whether it’s on marketing growth hacks or tutorials on how to use my software, my goal at the end of the day is to educate consumers even if that means getting a little uncomfortable.

—Solomon Thimothy, OneIMS

10. Keep a list of growth goals.

I keep a list of growth goals. Things like “practice public speaking,” “take a risk,” “explore a new and strange idea.” I keep the list close by, and I always try to read it at the end of the day. Because I got into the habit of reading the list, I know I’ll be accountable to it. It forces me to take these steps during the day.

—Nicole Munoz, Start Ranking Now

 

ref:  https://www.success.com/

Ang Daan sa tagumpay ay usually lubak lubak

to myself, para ma self motivate-  The road to success is not always paved,. lubak lubak siya malimit.. parang mukha ko lubak lubak.

makatingin na muna s picture ni maureen ng eat bulaga para maispire sa work..