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Sunday, August 21, 2022

8.21.2022

 

8.21.2022
sunday afternoon self-reflection
dear diary,
after so much time researching, it is really inevitable, after daily prodding & email reminders from google, i have no choice now but to do vblog, but i still dont know how? i do my online diary blog as a means to preserve my mental health during the lockdowns as i always alone in our house. so far, google has given me 300USD for my online diary & blogs.. kinita ko to in 10 years.. bale kinita ko sa online diary/blogs ko in 10 years is about 15,000 pesos or Php1,500 per year.. hahaha.. but you know what? i really feel very very happy when i got that last 100 USD payout from google, because it certifies you as real blogger. hobbyist nga lang ang category, kesa naman magmystories ka dyan or IG ng wala naman napapala.. hehehe
pressures from my suppliers/financiers/bosses from china/indonesia/california to increase our sales or else i will lose our distributorships.. it makes me wonder, how can i increase our sales of soldering tools, anti-static tools, calipers, torque bits & microscopes?..
research shows facebook is still there, but tiktok & youtube are the emerging premiere marketing tools now.
in short, wala nako choice now kundi magyoutube at magtiktok, kaso ang tanong, papano? dapat me parang me sinusundan akong channel din na parang inspiration.. wala akong alam sa tiktok at sa youtube.. but kelangan na talaga..
Lord please help me, i dont want to be dirt poor again..at madami na po ako sinusutentuhan now.. nanggaling nako sa pagiging poor na inuuutang sa tindahan yung macarel at sardinas..., ayoko na po bumalik dun.. di bale napong brokenhearted, basta wag lang po maging poor ulet.. at napakahirap po walang makain.. hahaha

Wednesday, August 17, 2022

public apology

8.17.2022
i am publicly apologizing dun sa tumawag 09992211968, taga BPI LOAN daw kanina at nasigawan ko.. i just feel guilty because i know the man is just doing his job. naisip ko, ang hirap din ng work nila, kasi baka makatyempo ng mga taong like me na me pinagdadaanan hahaha.
i know the feeling ng nasisigawan, because lagi rin kami nasisigawan ng clients, but please let me explain that sometimes you need to put a show to protect your self also.
yung sa mga nagpapakilalang taga BPI loans daw, they are using like 6-10 numbers, then daily for the last 1 month. yes!!!! for the last 30-40 days, they are calling daily! even on 8-9am na tulog ka pa.. i have keep on blocking their numbers but they have more new numbers everyday
based on my call logs, these are the numbers they are using to call me almost everyday for the past 2 months- 09989690785, 09992211968, 09989690786, 09989690790, 09992211893, 09992211917, 09992211974, 09992211908, 09300580316, 09992211916, 09992211905 , 09992211891, 09989690791 and some other numbers
imagine that numbers callin you for the past 2 months.. me anxiety pa kasi unknown number ang natawag sa yo..so ang taas parin pala ng level na pasencia ko, kasi today lang ako napikon, telephobic pa naman ako,,
i have declined their offers of BPI loan the last time like 2 months ago, because meron na po akong BPI loan now that i used in business. but somehow, tawag parin ng tawag every single day araw araw for the past 2 months na pala yata upon checking of my call logs, hindi lang pala 1 month, 2 months na pala... naliligo ka, natutulog ka, me ginagawa kang importante, me natawag, then magmamadali ka sagutin at baka imporante yun pala, yun parin kaya napikon nako,.im sorry
so again to the person handling 0999-221-1968, i am really very sorry napikon ako, sa mundong ito, ang pikon ay talo.. i should be more patient
anyway, i love BPI, laking help sa business yung mga services nila.


Monday, August 15, 2022

wHAT IS The Key to Success?

 

8.15.2022 monday morning self-reflection
Dear diary
Medyo stressful ang buhay pag singledad ka at breadwinner..oftentimes talagang nagkakaanxiety ka talaga sa kakaisip..then as a man na walang makayakap.. napakalungkot magisa so talagang need mo magtanggal ng stress every friday saturday night..kasi pressured stress ka buong week.
I am working now as early as 7am but simple house issues like food to eat, house repairs, presetable clothes to wear and other domestic issues are wearing me down. And make me lose focus in sorting out those far more important challenges in work.
Medyo prang nawawalan narin ako ng pagasa sa buhay, but good clients are still coming today.. our very small shop got a repeat order of an Anti-static item from PLDT Batangas. They will use this item in their office/ facilities that are connecting international internet cables from the west philippine sea to the Luzon island..imagine that.
And another repeat orders from PAL. Philippine Airlines..of a precision measuring device that are mostly used in the machine shops but also used to inspect parts for safety purposes.
Even if the orders are only a small amount..pambili lang ng san mig light...still i see it as a good sign as these companies are giant companies and will only transact to chosen few..As a licensed engineer myself, i feel proud as they are repeat orders, meaning they listened to our suggestions and they are satisfied clients.
These past weeks, i have been reflecting..wondering what is the key to success? Why are other businesspeople successful while others fail? What makes a man successful, happy and productive?
Why are others rich and why are others struggling like me? I have been thinking about it all along this past few years..
I now conclude..its the ability to choose and recruit good committed and hardworking people surrounding you and treat them right so they will stay...no matter how hardworking Henry Sy was, it is impossible to build supermalls all by himself..
Its the ability to choose good loyal Gf/partner in life so you have a stable lovelife .. you can fill 100 pages of diary entries to enumerate how impt this is for you to be successful in life.
The ability to choose honest ,& hardworking yayas na hindi absent ng absent kasi singledad ako. mahirap..the ability to choose honest good experienced carpenters to help you in house repairs.. These valuable people will help you in your domestic issues so you can focus on your work and small business.
Look how many points and rebounds did Scottie Thompson and Robert Bolick have after they settled down and get married?
The ability to choose good friends that will give you valuable advice and offer good contacts.. The ability to get good vibes friends that will not abuse or exploit your kindness that will join so you can have fun also..and will help you in your search of that one true love and the ability to recruit loyal and honest committed employees that will go to their work even if are not feeling very well.
I have one failed business before..and one of the major reasons it failed is because of unloyal and dishonest employees that i barely know..my mistake
The ability to get good 3rd party associates like Bookkeeper to help you lower your tax and prevent BIR problems so you can focus on selling.
Thats it! Now i know what is the key to happiness and success? - its the ability to get and surround yourself with good people..I blog this one in my mind..so i will always be reminded.
Workworkwork, grind lang ng grind.. at magrecruit ng committed at hardworking na mga kasama..yan ang plano this week
Kelan ulet ang roadtrip sa cute kong idol Rhuncell? Mabitac naman tayo pag good weather! Hahaha
happy birrhday to my big brother/ drinking buddy Shane Bluff !

Friday, August 12, 2022

8.12.2022 2pm brainstorming/production planning/self criticism

8.12.2022 2pm brainstorming/production planning/self criticism
aug-dec 2022 plan
Dear diary,
tama si FlowG
habang nagmamatured tayo, nagsasawa narin tayo manligaw ng manligaw at ipagpilitan ang sarili..magastos sa gas , magulo at higit sa lahat, aksaya sa oras yung panliligaw.. pag bet ka ng babae, bet ka, ke manligaw ka or hindi.. pag ayaw sa yo, kahit pa 4yrs ka dyan mag-full effort na panay punta ka antipolo, wala parin.. hindi parin ikaw pipiliin nyan..
so intayin nalang talaga na me dumating sa buhay mo na bet karin.. malalaman mo naman pag bet ka talaga, pag pumunta na sa bahay mo, at pinaghugas ka na ng pinggan at pinost ka na sa fb... wag kayo maniwala sa low key low key, ibig sabihin non me 3rd party,, sure na sure yun..hahaha
then mas gusto ko nalang is magsolder at magwork magwholesale/distributor ng microscopes at facemask, with Soldering Soldering pag mon-fri 6am-9pm pra me pambayad ng bills, ubos ang oras sa retail, dun nalang ako sa wholesale kahit small lang ang margin, so need talaga makahanap ng mas maraming resellers at hayaan mo sila yung mas malaki profit kesa sayo tutal sila naman naghirap bumisita at magdeliver sa clients.,
Then roadtrip at swiming kasama ng mga idol kong cute pag saturday pang relax, then maggarden at matulog buong araw pag sunday,..
pass sa mga away sa internet, away sa parking, pass na sa pagsasurf sa social media, pero need parin magpost ng post sa fb ng products pra makabenta... pass na sa SM santa rosa at napakahirap ng parking, ubos ang oras mo, pass narin sa mga walang katuturang landian.. dapat 1 babae lang..
ganon nalang siguro ang buhay.. simplehan nalang natin..
this is jabonga jabonga, signing off
'Warren Buffett' Says: An idiot with a plan can beat a genius without a plan.'

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