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Thursday, March 30, 2023

Ms. Sue Ramirez 2022 beach photos

thank you for the inspiration & hope Ms Sue Ramirez...In this time of uncertainty, you are certainly so hot & an awesome distraction..

Ms. Sue Ramirez

 
























this is actually not a beach photo but taken from San Benito Farm at Lipa, Batangas

photos taken from IG:

IG= sueannadoodles

Ms Julia Barreto 2023

Ms Julia Barreto 2023

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https://www.facebook.com/juliabarretto 

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half of the battle is won if you will just show up..

 

3.30.2023 5pm
dear diary,
kung ano man yung stress at hassle at issues at problema na kinakaharap ko now.. kasalanan ko lahat to..
i realized,
1/4 of the battle is won if you will just pick-up the phone..
half of the battle is won if you will just show up..
3/4 of the battle is won if you will just show up and do your assignment
80% of the battle is won if you will just show up, do your assignment & ask a little help from friends..
there is no guarantee that you will win every battle, but at least the odds will be in your favor if you will just pick-up the phone, show up, do your assignment & ask a little help from friends
i'm telephobic, i have fear of answering phones, specially unknown numbers. i dont know why.. , i also have this TMJ problem, my jaws & head ache when i talk to much..
hahaha, but we really need to conquer our fears..

Monday, March 27, 2023

Walang interesado manood ng PBA now kahit semis..

3.27.2023
dear diary
Walang interesado manood ng PBA now kahit semis.. Ginebra vs SMB, TNT vs Meralco. Gawa ng sister sister teams, kahit ako, fanatic ng PBA, wala pko pinapanood kahit isang game sa tv.. matalino na mga fans now.. wait nalang ng finals,
Ginebra na!!
laking bagay nung pagpasok sa PBA ng Converge ni coach ayo, at yung pagbalik ni coach yeng guiao sa ROS, medyo nabuhay ang interest sa liga.
need ng PBA ng kahit 2 independent teams pa, at ibenta nalang franchise ng mga farm teams like Terrafirma, Blackwater, Northport.. dun mabubuhay ulet ng PBA.
then need ng alisin yung salary cap sa rookie, pra yung mga magagaling na college players, hindi na mag japan japan! magpadraft nalang sa PBA..
For now kasi Ginebra lang ang bumubuhat ng PBA.. if walang laban ginebra, walang nanood, yung UAAP at MPBL laging puno yung arena..

Saturday, March 25, 2023

3.25.2022 5pm self-reflection

3.25.2022 5pm self-reflection
dear diary,
During my last visit to nuvali some few weeks ago, i tried to visit the Nuvali wakeboarding park. The guard said it is already close. Now i google it and confirmed it my self.
in their FB page, it says - "Unfortunately, Republic Wakepark in Nuvali, has also joined the long list of businesses that closed in the midst of the COVID-19 pandemic, as it announced its permanent closure.
“To our Republic Wakepark family, it is with deepest regret that we inform you that Republic Wakepark will be closing its doors permanently due to unfavorable business climate and pandemic effective April 30, 2021.”
and so do our Lagunastar Industries Company.. we will permanently close in the next few weeks to come. As our motto- Duty, Honor & Obligation. we will just need to deliver those remaining orders and then say it goodbye.
my beloved Lagunastar Industries shop will also join the long list of business that did not survive the pandemic. Though we are at the end of the pandemic. Financial losses in the 3 years 2020,2021,2022 greatly depleted our finances, due to delayed in deliveries (due to non-stop lockdowns in China), customs problems, compounded by increased overhead, and the last nail of the coffin- the unfair BIR penalties, we cannot bear the losses anymore.
I would like to thank all of our valued clients for the past 14 years as we are serving those giant companies since 2009. Before the pandemic, our soldering shop is known by the clients because we quote and deliver very fast, as we always have stocks, and the quality of our items is even better even though our pricing is also a lot lower than the competition. They are the reasons why we managed to survive in 14 years. But that was before the pandemic.
that is why i am bitter these past few months, because i cannot accept the fact na nalugi yung business.
when you are bitter for your past failures in business and personal life, you tend to hate yourself.
when you hate yourself, you tend to hate all. You hate the BIR for the unfair penalties, you hate the Customs for delaying your shipments, you hate the Philippine goverment , you hate the NPA terrorist, you hate the lockdowns in China. You hate your past bookkeeper for not warning you.
when you hate yourself, and bitter, you are very sensitive, nagiging matampuhin ba? you hate all, ,you hate even your family and friends and loveones, even though they are supporting you. wala lang because mainit ang ulo mo at pressured ka so you just hate everybody.. you even hate those cats sa harap mo na wala naman ginagawa sa yo so minsan pag lasing ka , nasisipa mo, ( im very sorry, im bad)
wala karin gana sa buhay, you lost interest in many things that excites you before, pati pag inom inom sa labas tinamad ka na, you lost interest even in women, hahaha, all your interest is in eating foods & watching netflix, then sleep.
but now, when you accept your fate, you can begin to forgive your self, & when you forgive yourself, you stop the hate, and begin your healing and try to back to the drawing board again.
So i would like to say sorry to my loveones who are at the receiving end of my bitterness the past few months , im really sorry
laking tulong nung long drive sa la union beach last week, nareset ang utak mo. nawala hate mo sa katawan, me konting bitterness nalang kasi medyo malaking amount yung nawala sa yo, nanghihinayang ka parin..pero accept mo na.
acceptance is the key, now the healing begins..
I think i really need to have a GF, para me mayakap yakap na pra yung ulo ko malamig ba lagi, pra mas mapabilis ang healing at recovery process.. hahahah

Tuesday, March 21, 2023

3.21.2023 4pm self-reflection

3.21.2023 4pm self-reflection
dear diary,
huling lamay ni ate ina.. reminds me that life is short. si ate ina, napakabait.
yesterday, i cannot breath properly.. i have experience shortness of breath for some 1-2 months already but i just ignore it. but yesterday, i really cannot breath. i am panicking.. i am thinking like do i have a cancer? or COPD? but i am not a smoker.. but korek mga pinsan ko, acid reflux or GERD lang pala to.. i usually take 5-6 or more coffee per day. salamat sa google, napayapa ako.. but pacheckup parin ako.. i hate this feeling na hindi makahinga..
bayaran na naman ng ITR.. puro tax tax tax, then winawaldas lang ng gobyerno sa kung ano ano..
before ano ako, happy go lucky lang. i have no hate in my life. except for these terrorist NPA from UP, i dont hate anybody. Even the unpopular goverment people , i don hate them
but after ng nangyari sa akin sa BIR last december, at nawalan ako ng pera. nabroke ako... parang napuno ako ng hate sa katawan, suddenly i hate myself.
if you hate yourself, you become a changed man, you become bitter. you suddenly hate everybody. you hate the BIR, you hate the customs , you hate these goverment people, you hate all the people , mainitin ang ulo mo, or nagkukulong ka lang sa room, you even hate your ex-girlfriends na nanloko at nang -iwan sa yo, you even hate the cat in front of you dahil laging nanggugulo sa kusina at ng mga basura..... hahaha
pero tama si nanay, now is the time to stop all these drama. mas marami pang tao na me mas matindi pinagdadaanan sa yo, so you need to stop these drama & accept na wala ka ng pera & just move-on and just work hard again pra makaipon ulet
naiisip ko parin syempre si ate ina, si yayay kasi namatay like 92 or 94 yo, so medyo mataas sinet na standard ng lola ko, so ineexpect ko mga tyahin ko aabot din ng mga ganitong edad so medyo nabigla rin ako. Life is very short indeed
and then now just read in the news- idol LA Tenorio, the iron man of PBA has colon cancer level 3.. i hope he will recover from it.
my beach roadtrip to la union with myfriend berna refreshes my mind, that long drive "reset" your mind.
Now is the time to stop the hate, now is the time to stop the self-pity and bitterness.. now is the time to work..
Just Solder it! work work work...

Sunday, March 19, 2023

Roadtrip to San Juan, La Union

 

3.19.2023 sunday
Dear diary,
Roadtrip to San Juan, La Union 3.18.2023 sat 1pm, medyo natanggal pa bumper sa likod sa TPLEX. speed mo kasi dun 110-130kph..buti me dalang duct tape,hahaha.. medyo luma na kasi kotse..buti mabait, maganda at pasenciosa yung kasama (gorgeous pa..hehehe)
Yung long drive at pagtambay sa beach is like our Hanstar 5600 Ionizing Fan ionizer.. it neutralizes the excess negative or positive static ions..hence it is the primary equipment for anti-static purposes
This long drive to the beach, it balances your soul.. i am full of negativity because of that BIR & logistical problems. When you have excess negativity, you are full of hate.. you hate yourself..you hate the BIR, you hate the Customs, you hate all the people around you, you hate all those women na manlololoko..you even hate the cat in front of you..hahaha
The only thing you love are your supportive clients and suppliers/financiers.
When you are with excess negativity, just like the excess static negative ions..it silently destroys you..it silently destroys your whole assembly..
But after this trip, your mind is fresh.. it is like the anti-static ionizers that take away that excess negativity and you are balanced.. You are healed..
No more hate...No more judgemental, No more Discrimation, All is fair in love no matter what is your age, religion, gender, nationality, etc etc..
If medyo tinatamad ka na talaga mabuhay sa mundo at puno ka ng hate, pressure, at bitterness sa katawan, lalo na sa mga kapwa ko small negosyante na nadale ng BIR (syempre bitter tayo, ikaw ang mawalan ng pera pangbusiness..wala ka naman laban sa gobyerno. hahaha)
i suggest long drive to the beach , it helps if me mabait kang kasama.. it will clear your mind..takes away all the hate and bitterness..it will motivate you again..will heal you
Just solder it..
Work work work..


Sunday, March 12, 2023

I spent the whole night with my favorite person.

Diary ng Licensed Manginginom ng Laguna
3.12.2023 sunday 4:10am
Dear diary,
I spent the whole night with my favorite person. After spending time in the afternoon to visit the 77th bday of our Ate Ina. We bought mangoes (100 Php/Kg), brocollis (140 php/Kg) and my favorite starapple kaimito (only Php70/Kg) in Binan, Laguna public market..
Gosh my favorite person is so pretty..she is very beautiful inside and out. She is like the light in a life full of darkness or she is like an oasis in the desert of life full of thirst. I love her.. but im basted..hahaha
After buying mangoes, my favotire person and i eat a sumptous but affordable meal in Henerasyon eatery also in Binan. Kare-kare is the best and very affordable at like only 250 or 300pesos.
The thing about my favorite person is that she is very pretty and very kind and very simple lady..The kind of girl you can dream of..pero basted nga..huhuhu.so jeneva are you happy that basted ako? Stalk pa more..
After delivering my favorite person to her house? (pano ba sa english is after ko siya hinatid sa bahay? Hahaha.. i decided to visit my favorite place in the city to think/ reflect and plan on what is my next move on how sell more of our high quality Hanstar soldering tools.
My mind is thinking about Nuvali, my family duties, my personal loans, our Soldering business"s BIR, SEC, Mayors permit, our deliveries to the clients..too many minds. And with this cash flow problems, I am feeling the pressures..
But hey its saturday night!
So If you are a businessman/professional or a gentleman or an expat living or presently in official business in the industrial and electronics hub in Binan city /Santa Rosa city Area in Laguna or nearby..
The perfect restobar place to chill and relax is in the Lady of d' Night at LTO Areza compound Binan, Laguna.. nice to visit also is the Carribien nearby.
The house is full and there was a like a bikini open at 2am. All the ladies are fresh and sexy, but i think that girl named Noemi, or Nowme, or Yesterdayme or Tomorrowme is the clearcut winner. She reminds me of a 20 year old Maxine Magalona..very gorgeous.
Pretty faces specially Ms..Angela and ms.Rio and some many others that i dont know the names..
I dont know..but the hips are hypnotizing..There is something hypnostic about a woman's hip that when it moves in sync subtly with a relaxing music, i can't explain.
After 4 bottles of beer i decide to call it a night..im already feeling tipsy..
im still lonely, but my mental health is preserved.. the leg massage of preng lee while i am gulping my san mig light also helps. i have relaxed..and now want to sleep all day to prepare for another week of soldering by monday.
Nice & cozy place, perfect place for gentlemen to relax after a hard day in business.. i love this Lady of d' Night or simply i love Ladies? Hahaha

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