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Wednesday, July 7, 2021

Oligarchs...

Sa mga nakakakila sa akin ng personal, talagang alam nila bilib na bilib ako ke Duterte and i consider him as the best president in our history, simply because i hate drugs, & napakadaming nagawa in just a very short time..nakikipag away pa nga ako sa internet.. hahaha.. pero pass nako sa mga comments about politics..

at Hindi pala ako makapagcomment about mga oligarchs.. kasi pag tiningnan ko list of clients namin now... mostly are owned by oligarchs!, hahaha, & they are very good clients. and i cannot bite those people who are feeding me & my families..
These oligarchs are making jobs available to us, providing us of business opportunities. So i say let them be rich & richer! Let us make some more families get superrich! so in return , they will provide jobs & business opportunities to ordinary folks like us!
It is like Zaibatsu in Japan, or South Korea's Chaebol, or Russian or American Oligarchs
As long as they are paying correct taxes, i say our government should create new oligarchs! As in my understanding, it is one of strategies employed by Japan, Korea, & China after WW2, & Russia after they shift to capitalism.. They made some few families superrich! in return , these few families, create more jobs & business opportunities to common folks making more middle class.. the more middle class you have, the richer a country will be..
so i say, the more Oligarchs we have. the more jobs will be available & more prosperous our country will be!
 
And i say, There is no poetry in poverty.. "To get rich is Glorious!" 

Tuesday, July 6, 2021

Struggle is real

 

Struggle is real, we need to accept that we are defeated.. we have to accept the fact that even though our soldering tools are lower in price, superior in terms of quality & performance, somebody's sales & marketing is stronger, faster & with a lot more resources than us, & with their super longer reach, they are unbeatable.. so.... If you cant beat them! join them! as they are welcoming you years ago in open arms.. adapt adapt adapt.. #solderingiron




Struggle is Real..


 

july 6, 2021
im just an ordinary guy struggling to look for an ordinary girl to marry..im just an ordinary salesman struggling to look for clients to sell my soldering irons..im just an ordinary breadwinner struggling to get food in the table & pay bills..we all have our struggles..
most businesses are struggling now..many are closing their shops..i hope our dearest government people specially the mighty BIR, Lgus should extend some help or at least give some compassion and leave businesses alone so they can recover or at least survive this pandemic..
we are in a struggling time..so please let us be nice to each other..and we have to work harder and not make asa to someone or make asa to government as the government is also struggling to find money too!
sruggle struggle struggle..pero sabi nga ni El pres mike.." at least buhay ka pa!!" .. struggling is surviving...if you are struggling it means you are still there trying to survive..and in business and in life, surviving is everything!
now, where will i find my own Ellen Adarna or my own Maris Racal??? hahaha

Thursday, July 1, 2021

july1 reflection:

 july1 reflection: you cant do anything about the past so forget it..but learn from it..forget your past glories and accomplishments as well as past mistakes the last 40years..

Restart your life..you still have another 40 yrs to live..so make new Glories now..as well as new but fewer mistakes along the way..
Life is too short, kalimutan mo na mga nakaraan..wala na yun..July 1 now, so isipin mo si Julius Caesar...isa sa mga iniidolo mong tao..so Push that Restart button at isolder mo ulit, this time alam mo na..so parang Gilas Pilipinas lang..laban lang ng laban!

Monday, June 28, 2021

june 28,2021 monday reflection

 
 
MONDAY na naman..i love mondays..it gives me hope na marectify mga pagkukulang ko last week..
happy bday nga pala bossing Jay Dela Cruz, ito na yung binigay mo sa aking grape seedlings..gumagapang na..muntik na yan actually mamatay..buti naagapan ko.
 
 
 
 
i reflect now and realized i need to do things now at faster pace. works and needs to be done if you did not finish it today, they will accumulate to the point you will be overwhelmed..hindi na tayo bumabata..hindi nako bumabata..madaming umaasa sa atin.so hindi tayo dapat magpabaya..
after surviving covid(?)last march, the accumulated works put me in a lot of pressure, i have succumbed to it..so i took a break and turn to binge netflix the last 3 months..i just sleep, drink, and watch netflix the last 3 months after i survived that 10days fever and the 1 month weakness..now i feel i am rejuvinated..ready to work agan..ready to face the world of hardship again..i feel my strength is back..
but i just question myself now, what is the purpose of all of this..i am alone..i am sad..i am questioning myself..what is the point of working? then i remind myself..
my purpose in working, is to fulfill my purpose in life..as they said..those who have clear purpose in life has longer life, and live a happy life..
my chosen purpose in life should be clear and specific..it is to help promote science and engineering in the Philippines..specifically in the fields of soldering and magnification, and metrology.. maybe if i will set my mind here in this purpose, i will have a clearer head, and will be more happy in life..
at 43yo at still binata..gaya nga ng savi ni bossing jay, hindi pa naman katandaan..i believe him..in this age, maybe the athelic abilities decreased..but overall, this is the peak age of power..
naisip ko, in this age of 40s, overall, you are more in control of your life..you have more money and resources at your disposal..you feel more stregth in your biceps and triceps..you have more knowledges and contacts in your chosen field..you are at the peak of your life..
if katulad ko kayo na 40s na at single parin..wag tayo mawalan ng pagasa..for sure, me isang maris racal na darating sa buhay natin..so tiwala lang..hahaha
so lets come' on gaya nga ng sabi ni idol brod carlo Jose Carlo L. Frio .. Let us fulfill our purpose in life.. age of 40s is the new 30s! it is our time..
so sa mga 40s dyan..gayahin natin yung MBTC or "more boys to come" ng mga jejemon girls..tayo naman ay MCTC- More chicks to come! and fulfill our purpose in life!
ps. gardening works muna ng 30min..pra by 8am ready to soldering na..
 
 





 

to myself-

Kasi tignan mo naman yan accomplishments mo ha.. Panahon na para i-pack up yang Noynoy Aquino mo, ilabas mo na diyan si Rodrigo Duterte..
 

SOlder work inom sleep , repeat

Solder Work Inom Sleep
Solder Work Inom Sleep
repeat..
Kelan kaya talaga ako magkakalovelife at sexlife? hehehe.. i want to get married too this 2021 and have my own family..
si scottie "iskati" thompson nga kinasal na..at si derek ramsey ikakasal na..i feel happy for them..talagang napagiwanan nako..kaya need ng humabol..hahaha..
hindi naman habambuhay solder nlng ng solder at magnifier ng magnifier..yoko naman mamatay magisa sa prostate cancer na usual sakit ng mga matandang binata..
hindi rin naman impt yung kung kasal or hindi..depende kung gusto ng babae or hindi, basta impt me partner ka, me katuwang ka sa buhay..me mamahalin at aalagaan ka..me magmamahal at mag aalaga sayo..give & take lang ang peg..
Nakakasawa ng magisa sa bahay..busog karin naman now kasi me food panda na..kaso kakasawa narin..iba parin lutong bahay..minsan kalang mabuhay so dapat maging happy ka na..syempre gusto ko rin makatikim ng pagaalaga ng isang jowa..me sariling bahay na naman ako..talagang ibabahay nalang ang kulang. hahaha..
Now, where do i start to achieve this goal? let me figure it out..work3x

 

Saturday, June 26, 2021

June 26 mema

 need ko manligaw ng 1 babae superganda na babastedin ako,at lalait laitin..yun need ko pra mamotivate ako sa sales work ko..pra makabenta ng madami soldering iron.$$$

JUNE 26, 2021

 when nobody is taking care of you..you should take care of yourself.. i lost the battle of the bulge this month..i am now 192 lb..huhuhu..i should sleep early now and start to jog..

Friday, June 25, 2021

July - Dec 2021 Pandemic Work Schedule

GANITO nlng gawin mo,tutal lagi ka naman iniiwanan at talagang hopeless case na yang personal/lovelife aspect ng buhay mo...malamang kesa hindi is habambuhay ka nalang single.. dahil nga walang babaeng gustong sumeryoso at sumama sa yo at magpakasal sa yo.. accept mo nalang.. hehehe. napakahirap talagang me sumeryoso sa yo pag single father ka.. Gawin mo, bumawi ka nalang sa career.. magpakalunod ka sa pagsosolder para malibang ka..
GANITO gawin mo,
Pandemic 2021 work sched:
M-F morning till evening= Lunurin mo sarili sa work3x, magsolder . pagsilbihan ang mga clients..at asikasuhin mga investments..magpayaman.. Do your duties..Magpapapogi ka sa mga clients at bosses mo, pra ireward ka..i iwas na sa social media, dahil kapos ka sa oras..malakas kumain ng oras yung social media,.wala ka naman napapala..
Sat Morning= Magjogging then work3x..(focus sa Lazada shop)..
Sat Afternoon= Swimming sa clubhouse, magrelax..
Sat Evening= Magworkout muna or badminton then pag mga 9pm na Lunurin na sarili sa alak, magrelax, at mambabae (optional) kasama ng mga friends..( special note: COMPULSARY Magpakalunod sa alak ng Saturday nite, para hindi ka matukso uminom ng Sunday to Thursday, pero pass sa red horse, empy at alfonso.. uminom lang with old & trusted friends, mambabae lang if talagang me makilalang quality na me future., maging choosy..
Sun=RD- Maglaba (if Necessary), Netflix at sleep all day.. pass sa gala..

jUNE 25, 2021

 ganito nlng,tutal depressed ka at lonelyboy,
M-F= Lunurin sarili sa work3x,magpayaman
Sat=Lunurin sarili sa alak,mambabae..
Sun=RD

Sunday, June 20, 2021

Manila Beach

 

   di ko magets bakit mas gusto to ng iba..dun nako sa dolomites kesa sa basura..at talaga naman matagal ng ginagamit dolomites sa mga artificial beach..Pilipinas is our country..pagandahin natin to..with or without pandemic..wag natin hayaan maging dugyot ang bansa natin dahil lang sa mga taong puro reklamo alam..

 Papano kaya magiinvest at magtatayo ng mga electronic factories yang mga foreign investors sa atin kung puro basura makikita sa ating capital Manila? bash me if u can, but i will always choose dolomites beach over basura beach..

 
sa gastos naman, me presyo ba ang nation"s pride? kung need gumastos pra sa ikakaganda at ikakalinis ng beach sa ating kapitolyo, bakit hindi? mababawi naman yan in terms of tourism, investments at yung priceless n pride natin bilang Pilipino na hindi nakakahiya ang bansa natin.. #soldering #manilabeach #DU30
 
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1. photo from Manila Times 



Thursday, June 10, 2021

just walk away

 "There is maturity in the person who has learned to just walk away from situations and people that threatens their peace of mind, self-respect, values, self-worth, and morals. They are wise this way. "- Francis Kong

 #PassionPurposeProductivity

Wednesday, June 9, 2021

"Nice Guys Finish Last"

 "Nice Guys Finish Last"

June 9, 2021
Isa na namang malamig at malungkot na gabi.. Gets ko na bakit hindi ako magkaron ng stable lovelife for the past 10 years..at kung bakit ako lagi iniiwan at niloloko ng babae.. Masyado ako mabait at mapagbigay at todo magmahal sa babae.. masyado akong matino.. at pag sexy at maganda, madali ako mainlove..
at napinpoint ko na ang main problem ko- Im a nice guy.. and "nice guys finish last"..
at hindi ako nag-iisa, napakadami naming "nice guys"..manood ka ng raffy tulfo, napakaraming "nice guys" na iniwan..
Based on CFO PESO SENSE, sa mga episodes ng Raffy Tulfo..Based on research and keen observations, based din sa mga lessons sa prayer meetings ng Truepang Zero, at sa mga advise ng nanay ko at ilang friends na girls.. and also based sa masasakit na experience, mas preferred talaga ng babae ang Bad Boys.. kaya nga "nice guys finish last"..
mas gusto ng babae yung nahihirapan sila, yung mumura murahin sila ng lalake, yung sila pa gagastos dun sa lalake, yung nachachallenge sila na baguhin..at ma pride din ang mga babae.. hinge yan ng hinge ng mga gifts, at support, pero at the end, ang pipiliin nyan yung lalake na never sila sinupport, then babalikan ka pa na utouto ka kasi, at hindi moko mabibili.. so in the end, loser talaga ang mga nice guys.. at ang pipiliin is si Bad Guy na never nagsupport..kasi nga nachachallenge sila..(Raffy Tulfo, various episodes)
According to McDaniel, popular culture and dating advice: "...suggest that women claim they want a 'nice guy' because they believe that is what is expected of them when, IN REALITY, THEY WANT THE SO CALLED "CHALLENGE" THAT COMES WITH DATING A NOT-SO-NICE-GUY (McDaniel, A. K. , 2005)
observation ko lang din, Me nakita ka na bang Tambay na walang jowa? pero dami mong nakikita na Engr, Doctors, Professors, Teachers, Nurse na walang Jowa..nung tambay lang din ako at walang work, at binabato ko yung dalang pagkain ng gf ko dati, dun din ako nagka gf ng seryoso.. hehehe, nung me work nako, at kalma na lagi.. dun nako nahirapan magkastable lovelife..
The "nice guys finish last" view is that there is a discrepancy between women's stated preferences and their actual choices in men. In other words, women say that they want nice guys, but really go for men who are "jerks" or "bad boys" in the end. Stephan Desrochers claims, in a 1995 article in the journal Sex Roles, that many "sensitive" men, based on personal experience, do not believe women actually want "nice guys". - Desrochers, Stephan (1995)
if masyado ka panice guy, papalibre lang sayo yang mga babae ng starbucks.. then ipopost nila sa FB na nagstarbucks sila, pero syempre hindi ka kasama dun sa post..hahaha,. then ang ipopost nila sa FB is yung kasama si badboy na ayaw sila ilibre, so silang babae ang magbabayad habang nakain sila ng isaw sa kanto, pra pacool sa fb na low maintenance lang sila.. hahaha,
"Galawang Harvey" -aka Vanessa , hehehe
so therefore, i conclude in this hypothesis, so ganon pala talaga yun.. talagang mas preferred ng mga babae yung Bad Boys .. so wala ka ng magagawa dun.. so sa mga katulad kong naghahanap din ng stable at seryosong partner sa buhay.. if you cant beat them, join them! hehehe, so tara narin magpaka Bad Boys! at wag masyadong gentleman at mabait sa mga babae, ayaw nila yun? okei okei?
magpanggap muna tayong badboys at pag asawa na natin, dun natin ipakita na talagang nice guy tayo..hahaha
Ref:
1. McDaniel, A. K. (2005). "Young Women's Dating Behavior: Why/Why Not Date a Nice Guy?". Sex Roles. 53 (5–6): 347–359
2. Desrochers, Stephan (1995). "What types of men are most attractive and most repulsive to women". Sex Roles. 32 (5–6): 375–391

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