"Nice Guys Finish Last"

 "Nice Guys Finish Last"

June 9, 2021

Isa na namang malamig at malungkot na gabi.. Gets ko na bakit hindi ako magkaron ng stable lovelife for the past 10 years..at kung bakit ako lagi iniiwan at niloloko ng babae.. Masyado ako mabait at mapagbigay at todo magmahal sa babae.. masyado akong matino.. at pag sexy at maganda, madali ako mainlove..

at napinpoint ko na ang main problem ko- Im a nice guy.. and "nice guys finish last"..

at hindi ako nag-iisa, napakadami naming "nice guys"..manood ka ng raffy tulfo, napakaraming "nice guys" na iniwan..

Based on CFO PESO SENSE, sa mga episodes ng Raffy Tulfo..Based on research and keen observations, based din sa mga lessons sa prayer meetings ng Truepang Zero, at sa mga advise ng nanay ko at ilang friends na girls.. and also based sa masasakit na experience, mas preferred talaga ng babae ang Bad Boys.. kaya nga "nice guys finish last"..

mas gusto ng babae yung nahihirapan sila, yung mumura murahin sila ng lalake, yung sila pa gagastos dun sa lalake, yung nachachallenge sila na baguhin..at ma pride din ang mga babae.. hinge yan ng hinge ng mga gifts, at support, pero at the end, ang pipiliin nyan yung lalake na never sila sinupport, then babalikan ka pa na utouto ka kasi, at hindi moko mabibili.. so in the end, loser talaga ang mga nice guys.. at ang pipiliin is si Bad Guy na never nagsupport..kasi nga nachachallenge sila..(Raffy Tulfo, various episodes)

According to McDaniel, popular culture and dating advice: "...suggest that women claim they want a 'nice guy' because they believe that is what is expected of them when, IN REALITY, THEY WANT THE SO CALLED "CHALLENGE" THAT COMES WITH DATING A NOT-SO-NICE-GUY (McDaniel, A. K. , 2005)

observation ko lang din, Me nakita ka na bang Tambay na walang jowa? pero dami mong nakikita na Engr, Doctors, Professors, Teachers, Nurse na walang Jowa..nung tambay lang din ako at walang work, at binabato ko yung dalang pagkain ng gf ko dati, dun din ako nagka gf ng seryoso.. hehehe, nung me work nako, at kalma na lagi.. dun nako nahirapan magkastable lovelife..

The "nice guys finish last" view is that there is a discrepancy between women's stated preferences and their actual choices in men. In other words, women say that they want nice guys, but really go for men who are "jerks" or "bad boys" in the end. Stephan Desrochers claims, in a 1995 article in the journal Sex Roles, that many "sensitive" men, based on personal experience, do not believe women actually want "nice guys". - Desrochers, Stephan (1995)

if masyado ka panice guy, papalibre lang sayo yang mga babae ng starbucks.. then ipopost nila sa FB na nagstarbucks sila, pero syempre hindi ka kasama dun sa post..hahaha,. then ang ipopost nila sa FB is yung kasama si badboy na ayaw sila ilibre, so silang babae ang magbabayad habang nakain sila ng isaw sa kanto, pra pacool sa fb na low maintenance lang sila.. hahaha,

"Galawang Harvey" -aka Vanessa , hehehe

so therefore, i conclude in this hypothesis, so ganon pala talaga yun.. talagang mas preferred ng mga babae yung Bad Boys .. so wala ka ng magagawa dun.. so sa mga katulad kong naghahanap din ng stable at seryosong partner sa buhay.. if you cant beat them, join them! hehehe, so tara narin magpaka Bad Boys! at wag masyadong gentleman at mabait sa mga babae, ayaw nila yun? okei okei?

magpanggap muna tayong badboys at pag asawa na natin, dun natin ipakita na talagang nice guy tayo..hahaha

#understandingwomen #niceguysfinishlast #solderingiron

#raffytulfoinaction #cfopesosense

Ref:

1. McDaniel, A. K. (2005). "Young Women's Dating Behavior: Why/Why Not Date a Nice Guy?". Sex Roles. 53 (5–6): 347–359

2. Desrochers, Stephan (1995). "What types of men are most attractive and most repulsive to women". Sex Roles. 32 (5–6): 375–391