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Tuesday, December 3, 2019

Proposal to our dearest President Duterte : Dapat me Warning din ang PAGASA at NDRRMC pag iiwan ka na nag jowa mo..

Dapat me Warning din ang PAGASA at NDRRMC dahil Incoming Disaster din naman pag iniwan ka ng jowa mo di ba?



Proposed MePagasa Signal nos. :

MePagasa signal #5, meaning malakas na malakas pa kayo at talagang me Pagasa na kayo talaga hanggang sa huli..araw araw halos nagkikita.. laging magkatext at chat, at videocall..laging me love you sa dulo ng conversation..

MePagasa signal #4 = malakas parin ang inyong relationship..araw araw parin siya nagtetext at videocall sa yo pero hindi na katulad ng signal #5 na halos every hour pag free kayo..malimit parin kayo nagkikita at masaya kayo...pero parang nagstart na me sumingit na iba..

MePagasa signal #3 = unti unti mo ng nararamdam na nanlalamig na siya..nagagalit siya pag gusto mo makita camera gallery ng phone nya..mabagal n siya magreply s chat at text mo.. bihira na nya sagutin ang calls mo..bihira na kayo magkita..usually pag me kailangan nalang siya..

MePagasa signal #2= unti unti ng humihina ang relasyon at parang lagi nalang ayaw nya sagutin ang mga callls at videocalls mo..sa text nalang siya paramdam..bihira n kayo magkita at ayaw na nya ng mga intimate moments at nagdadahilan n siya para hindi kayo magkita..

MePagasa signal #1 = one sided nalang ang relasyon..ikaw nalang ang umaasa na me pagasa pa kayo..ikaw nalang ang laging text ng text na bihira na nya replyan..ayaw n nya sagutin ang calls at videocalls mo..pero ayaw naman nya sagutin yung tanong mo kung ok pa ba kayo? at bakit ayaw nya sagutin calls mo..

MePagasa signal # 0... = wala na talaga pagasa..naghosting ka na..parang na bea alonzo..

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NDRRMC (kung sino man nagisip ng name ng agency nito, pahirap ka, ang haba!)

10 Ways to Overcome Fear and Break Out of Your Comfort Zone

wala ng choice.. need ng iovercome ang fear.. and get out of your comfort zone.. and hopefully you will find success

taken from: 
https://www.success.com/10-ways-to-overcome-fear-and-break-out-of-your-comfort-zone/

10 Ways to Overcome Fear and Break Out of Your Comfort Zone

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Fear is a natural and essential part of growth. Every time we consciously choose to step outside of our comfort zone, the next uncomfortable thing becomes a little bit easier.
We asked members of the Young Entrepreneur Council how they take those small but powerful daily steps. Here’s what they said.

1. Take nothing for granted.

I’ve learned a lot through suffering, as much as I have through success. And I’m grateful for the suffering the most. Going through a divorce, splitting ways with a wayward business partner, working to the point of sickness… you name it. Suffering has led me to a place where I try to take nothing for granted. When you avoid taking your business and relationships for granted, it’s much harder to be complacent.
—Robby Berthume, Bull & Beard

2. Switch up your routine.

Routines are as much about comfort as they are about efficiency. Each day, I switch up my routine in small but meaningful ways. I’ll walk a new route to work, stop for lunch at different times of the day and take the stairs instead of the elevator. Small shake-ups in my routine lead to meeting new people and seeing different sights, which help kick-start ideas for both my work and personal life.
—Kim Kaupe, ZinePak

3. Move toward your fears.

I found that the things I’m afraid to do are often the things that have the greatest potential to expand my life. Now when I feel fear, it’s usually an indicator that I need to do that thing I’m afraid of. Making a commitment to lean into that each day has been really uncomfortable at times, but it has also been responsible for a lot of great memories and a deep level of personal satisfaction.
—Mark Krassner, Expectful

4. Give up control.

It might not be an everyday thing, but giving up bits of control of my company takes me out of my comfort zone. Hiring someone to run our social media, delegating new inquiries to speak to someone on my staff or letting my employees take the lead on client projects have all taken me out of my comfort zone, which is important.
—Leila Lewis, Be Inspired PR

5. Try something new until you feel comfortable.

Anything that I struggle with, I keep trying different approaches until I’m no longer scared of it. Sometimes it takes a while to get comfortable, so I try different approaches daily, or just keep at it until it becomes comfortable. Then I move to the next uncomfortable thing.
—Drew Hendricks, Buttercup

6. Ask the questions other people don’t like to.

I want to know what’s up with my employees, customers and everything going on in between. This means having frequent and open conversations with my employees and getting customers on the phone to find out how they liked their experiences with my business. I ask tough questions to address real issues and promote growth for my business.
—Zev Herman, Superior Lighting

7. Start conversations with strangers.

I really enjoy talking to people, and I’ve found that striking up a conversation with the person next to me, while I’m waiting for transportation or enjoying a meal at a lunch place’s bar seating, is a great way to overcome shyness with new people. It’s also a good way to learn amazing things about the world and the people in it.
—Matt Doyle, Excel Builders

8. Agree to something you wouldn’t normally consider.

Sometimes when someone offers me something that I would normally refuse, I like to surprise myself by saying yes, whether it is something business-related, like trying a new strategy, or accepting an invitation to join an amateur sports team on the weekend. Even if it doesn’t work out, I always learn something from the experience.
—Russell Kommer, eSoftware Associates Inc

9. Get in front of the camera.

I get in front of the camera on a daily basis. Creating videos always challenges me to present information in the best way possible, step out of my comfort zone and put myself out there on the internet. Whether it’s on marketing growth hacks or tutorials on how to use my software, my goal at the end of the day is to educate consumers even if that means getting a little uncomfortable.
—Solomon Thimothy, OneIMS

10. Keep a list of growth goals.

I keep a list of growth goals. Things like “practice public speaking,” “take a risk,” “explore a new and strange idea.” I keep the list close by, and I always try to read it at the end of the day. Because I got into the habit of reading the list, I know I’ll be accountable to it. It forces me to take these steps during the day.
—Nicole Munoz, Start Ranking Now

https://www.success.com/

Monday, December 2, 2019

Dec 2, 2019

to myself= accept that your life now is a mess, & admit that you can only blame yourself & nobody else..then forgive yourself..and start to fix your life..even though the process is slowly , painfully, & cumbersome..
You are broke, depressed & brokenhearted now, with mountainous works to be done.. but at least you are more experienced now..still very much healthy ( health is wealth!), pogi parin, with loyal coworkers, with rich mother and supportive principals in the Philippines & in abroad to back you up to serve your ever growing list of clients..
Improve yourself..fix your mess..work work work..do your job, serve your clients the best service possible so they will reward you..remember Deng Xiaoping's quotes.. then for sure.. the lady in your dreams will knock in you door at the middle of the night, and say to you..im yours..take me..i will take care of you..

Sunday, December 1, 2019

Dec 1 ,2019

Bang:

Mukhang need ko na nga talaga yata iaccept sa sarili ko na hindi moko talaga gusto..hindi ka na nagparamdam 2 days na.. kahit wala naman tayong pinag awayan..at masaya tayo last ng nagkasama tayo..

pero ganon talaga ang buhay..need mo accept na hindi lahat ng gusto mo ay gusto ka rin..
ang masakit lang is yung mga oras na nasayang..me mga plano tayo na magaganda..


pero hindi parin ako susuko.. tuloy ang laban..sana paramdam ka na.. pero kung talagang ayaw mo na sa akin or me iba ka na or galit ka, tatanggapin ko yun.. ang importante is magkausap tayo at malaman ko na safe ka..parating pa naman yung Bagyo si Tisoy.

basta i love you..in the end, im still praying that you will still be mine, & you will be my partner in life..

Love you with all my heart


Bong

#memalang #imagination

Saturday, November 30, 2019

Monday, November 25, 2019

11/25/2019

“It is necessary sometimes to take one step backward to take two steps forward.”

― Vladimir Lenin

Sunday, November 24, 2019

Right Where You Belong by Julie Anne San Jose

"Right Where You Belong"
Wondering where you are tonight
Maybe you're that distant star
How I want you right here by my side
Now I see your face above
Could you take me where you are
Unafraid no matter what may come
Waiting for the hour of those many nights
When you wake up in the storm
Trees will all be standing tall
I come to you, you'll never be alone
When your hopes fall apart
Night is cold, day is dark
I give my heart, it's right where you belong
Right where you belong
And we'll meet across the sky
So together we will fly
You're so near to me, you'll never be afar
Wanting every hour of those many nights
When you wake up in the storm
Trees will all be standing tall
I come to you, you'll never be alone
When your hopes fall apart
Night is cold, day is dark
I give my heart, it's right where you belong
Right where you belong
Right where you belong
Loving every hour of those many nights
When you wake up in the storm
Trees will all be standing tall
I come to you, you'll never be alone
When your hopes fall apart
Night is cold, day is dark
I give my heart, it's right where you belong
Right where you belong
Right where you belong
Source: Musixmatch
Songwriters: OBAR AGATHA C

Lyrics - Let Me Be The One

"Let Me the One"

Somebody told me you were leavin'
I didn't know
Somebody told me you're unhappy
But it doesn't show
Somebody told me that you don't want me no more
So you're walkin' out the door
Nobody told me you've been cryin'
Every night
Nobody told me you'd been dyin'
But didn't want to fight
Nobody told me that you fell out of love from me
So I'm settin' you free
Let me be the one to break it up
So you won't have to make excuses
We don't need to find a set up where
Someone wins and someone loses
We just have to say our love was true
But has now become a lie
So I'm tellin' you I love you one last time
And goodbye
Somebody told me you still loved me
Don't know why
Nobody told me that you only
Needed time to fly
Somebody told me that you want to come back when
Our love is real again
Let me be the one to break it up
So you won't have to make excuses
We don't need to find a set up where
Someone wins and someone loses
We just have to say our love was true
But has now become a lie
So I'm tellin' you I love you one last time
And goodbye
Just turn around and walk away
You don't have to live like this
But if you love me still then stay
Don't keep me waiting for that final kiss
We can work together through this test
Or we can work through it apart
I just need to get this off my chest
That you will always have my heart
Let me be the one to break it up
So you won't have to make excuses
We don't need to find a set up where
Someone wins and someone loses
We just have to say our love was true
But has now become a lie
So I'm tellin' you I love you one last time
And goodbye
Source: Musixmatch
Songwriters: Bondoc Jimmy / BONDOC JIMMY
    Popularizes by : Jimmy Bondoc, Julie Anne San Jose

Friday, November 22, 2019

nov 22, 2019

i support our government's efforts in PUV modernization..the thing is please dont call it "modern Jeepney", when in fact, they are MINI BUS..ok??? #realtalk


Friday, November 1, 2019

nov 1, 2019

hindi man ako makapunta now sa cementeryo dahil sa work, araw araw ko naaalala ang mga advise sa akin regarding sa lovelife at business ng aking lola atang, kuya andy, kuya edong, kuya noli at ng aking tatay si "Mr President" "Fricks" Kikoy..

laging sinasabi sa akin ng lola ko, si yayay kung tawagin,.na baka sa sobrang choosy ko sa pagpili ng bagong GF dahil alam nya na hiwalay nako sa exwife ko, ay baka sa pokpok ako mapunta. hahaha.
she is 93 years old when she said that frankly but in jest..

Also, my lola said to me, not to be too jealous, because women hates that, the Jealous type..She said that the worst partner is the jealous type.. so don't be too jealous when you have a beautiful Gf she said.. its hard to follow her advise,. but i take that advise to the heart..

Si Kuya Andy naman na siyang tumatayong parang adviser ng lahat, is like ang laging sinasabi sa akin is mga related sa business at pati sa babae..He is right sa mga pinagsasabi nya sa akin sa business. Then meron siyang specific advise sa mga babae, na totoo nga..i will always keep that in mind..

Ke Kuya edong, na nag advise sa akin na huwag magyosi..at mga driving and car maintenance advise kagaya ni Kuya Noli.. mga batikang drivers kasi tong si Kuya edong at kuya noli, so madami akong natutunang tip sa driving at pagmaintin ng sasakyan mula sa kanila

Sa aking tatay, salamat tay. alam ko sacripisyo mo noon pang bata ako. Magkabaligtad kami ng tatay ko.. magaling siyang magjoke at hindi mahiyain,. pero natutunan ko sa kanya is yung value ng pakikisama sa mga kaibigan.. dahil halos lahat ng kaibigan nya ay friends pa nya mula pagkabata..

pasencia na tay, yay at sa mga uncle ko kung sakaling hindi ako makapunta now, alam kong maiintindihan nyo ako.. See you later.. But not yet..hahaha
 

My favorite photo- aka ms catriona gray

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