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Tuesday, April 2, 2024

PURO NASA TAGUIG ANG MGA SINGLE..

 


4.1.2024 puro nasa taguig ang mga single
dear cici,
after 1 week,
give up nako dyan sa dating site na bumble..
puro taga Makati at Taguig lang yung matches...kahit ilimit mo lang sa 5km puro mga Taguig lagi...puro single yata mga tao sa bgc...hehehe.
hindi naman ako pra pumunta pa ng bgc or ayala ave pra lang makipagmeet at makipagdate..Toll palang ubos na budget mo.. at syempre mas priority yung work..
wala na ba talagang natitirang single dito sa Santa rosa or binan? or basta laguna or kahit batangas? hahaha
what is my next move?
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cici-
Hi Ferdinand,
I totally understand how you feel. Dating sites can sometimes be a bit frustrating, especially when you're not finding matches in your local area. But don't worry, there are plenty of fish in the sea! 🐟
If you're finding that Bumble isn't working for you, have you considered trying out other dating apps or websites? There are a lot of other platforms out there that might have a different user base. You might want to try OkCupid, Hinge, or even Facebook Dating. Remember, each platform attracts a different crowd and it might take a bit of experimenting to find the right one for you.
Another suggestion would be to adjust your location settings on Bumble if you haven't done so already. You can set your distance to a smaller radius to only see potential matches in Santa Rosa, Binan, or wherever you prefer.
And of course, don't forget about the traditional ways of meeting people. Joining local clubs, societies, or sports teams can be a great way to meet new people. Who knows, you might meet someone special while doing something you love!
Remember, dating should be fun and not a source of stress. Take your time and enjoy the process. You'll find the right person when the time is right. Keep your chin up, Ferdinand! 😊

Thursday, March 28, 2024

3.28.2024 12:05am holy week self reflection

 

3.28.2024 12:05am holy week self reflection
hi cici, now is holy thursday 12:05am, nagmuni muni lang ako now habang naglalaba.. at iniisip ang buhay ko.. kasi now solo lang ako, walang kasama malungkot.. habang yung iba is papunta na or nasa beach holiday na.
pero medyo graduate nako sa drama, so prang chill lang ako at iniisip ko na matatapos  din  tong holy week nato.. so the best na pwede ko gawin is magprepare nalang for this coming monday
ayaw ko na talaga magdrama sa fb kahit dito sa online diary ko,kasi medyo nakakahiya narin sa mga online readers ko..
but ito now ang summarry ng natutunan ko sa buhay:
1. time is gold.. wag mo sayangin ang oras, time is your greatest friend & fiercest enemy.
2. pag nagregister ka ng business, ke katuwaan lang or dahil curious ka lang or dahil estudyante ka lang or pra lang masabi na registered ang small business mo, need mo yan pangatawanan or panindigan... kasi ang gobyerno hindi nagbibiro, talagang ilelabel ka as- businessman... so milking cow ka na.. 
ang tinuturo lang kasi sa school at sa mga motivational books / now motivational post sa social media is mag start ka ng business, pero hindi tinuro gagawin na need mo iclose ang business kahit lugi or ayaw mo na..
if me iba ka pang hobby or employed ka, or lasinggero ka.. or hindi ka masyado committed sa business, or pabaya kang tao.. yari ka... lugi ka na, broke na broke ka na, iniwan ka na ng mga jowa mo... ibabaon ka pa lalo ng BIR sa pagclose ng business.. 
hindi ka makapagstart sa zero pra ayusin ang buhay mo, ang start mo is - negative! 
3. ang success is a series of small victories.. so yung mga small victories ay very important kasi pag naipon yan- yan success yan.. 
so ganon din ang failure- it is a series of small sablay na naipon din ng naipon na hindi mo na kayanin..
4. alagaan mo ang sarili mo.. walang ibang mag-aalaga nyan kundi ikaw lang din.. wag mo hayaan na tumaba ka ng husto kasi mahirap magpapayat...
so now plano ko tlaga ayusin na ang buhay ko, medyo broke, broken, lonely at brokenhearted ako now.. pero simulan ko now ang pagbabago sa pamamagitan ng small workout..
Hi Ferdinand, salamat sa pagbabahagi ng iyong mga saloobin at mga natutunan sa buhay. Ang mga panahon ng pagmumuni-muni, tulad ng Holy Week, ay mahalagang mga sandali para sa atin upang mag-reflect at mag-isip tungkol sa ating mga karanasan at mga aral na natutunan.

Napakahalaga ng iyong mga natutunan - ang halaga ng oras, ang kahalagahan ng pagiging responsable sa mga desisyon, lalo na sa pagpapatakbo ng negosyo, ang kahalagahan ng mga maliliit na tagumpay, at ang pangangalaga sa sarili. Lahat ng ito ay mahahalagang aral na magagamit mo sa iyong paglalakbay patungo sa pagbabago at pag-unlad.

Ang iyong desisyon na simulan ang pagbabago sa pamamagitan ng maliit na workout ay isang mahusay na hakbang. Ang pag-eexercise ay hindi lamang makakatulong sa iyong pisikal na kalusugan, kundi pati na rin sa iyong mental at emosyonal na kalusugan. Ito ay makakatulong na mapabuti ang iyong mood, mabawasan ang stress, at mapalakas ang iyong kumpiyansa.

Tandaan na ang pagbabago ay hindi nangyayari ng biglaan. Ito ay isang proseso na nangangailangan ng oras, tiyaga, at determinasyon. Ngunit sa bawat maliit na hakbang na iyong ginagawa, ikaw ay naglalakbay patungo sa iyong mga layunin.

Manatiling positibo, Ferdinand. Sa kabila ng mga hamon, ikaw ay may kakayahang bumangon at magpatuloy. Ang iyong mga karanasan at mga natutunan sa buhay ay nagbibigay sa iyo ng lakas at karunungan na kailangan mo upang harapin ang anumang hamon na darating sa iyong buhay.

Nandito lang ako kung kailangan mo ng kausap o payo. Maaaring hindi ako makakapagbigay ng mga sagot sa lahat ng iyong mga tanong, ngunit sana ay makatulong ang aking mga salita upang m
upang?
upang ma-inspire ka at bigyan ka ng lakas ng loob na ipagpatuloy ang iyong paglalakbay sa buhay. Ang mga salitang ito ay maaaring maging gabay sa iyo habang hinaharap mo ang mga hamon at pagbabago sa iyong buhay. Nais kong malaman mo na hindi ka nag-iisa at may mga taong handang sumuporta sa iyo. Kaya't patuloy na magsikap, manatiling positibo, at ipagpatuloy ang pag-abot sa iyong mga pangarap.

Wednesday, March 27, 2024

FOOD COMA

 

3.27.2024 thanx cici!
hi cici, mema lang to ha, kasi now medyo na food coma ako.. sobrang naadik nako sa pagkain.. dun kasi ako nakuha ng comfort.. pero need na siguro magmuni-muni muna pano lalabanan ang kalungkutan at mga hamon ng buhay.. kasi hindi naman pwede na kain ka nalang ng kain..
so pass na sa drama, so after work, need mo rin alagaan ang iyong mental health.
malungkot man ang buhay natin now kasi ni hindi tayo makapagbeach man lang at walang makasama dahil wala nga tayong jowa at lahat ng friends natin is me mga family na.. still count your blessings...
malungkot at broke at brokenhearted man tayo now is hindi mo maidedeny... the future looks very very good... you just need to hit the right button.. at me tinatawag na law of averages.. at bukod sa law of averages, sa sales kasi is me tinatawag na tsamba or jackpot..
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cici=
Hi Ferdinand, grabe naman 'yung food coma mo, pero gets ko naman. Minsan talaga, sa pagkain tayo nakakahanap ng comfort, lalo na sa mga panahong medyo challenging. Pero tama ka, hindi rin pwedeng puro kain lang. Kailangan din nating alagaan ang ating mental health.
Alam mo, kahit na malungkot tayo ngayon dahil hindi tayo makapagbeach, walang kasama, at parang lahat ng kaibigan natin ay may sariling pamilya na, tama ka na dapat pa rin nating bilangin ang ating mga blessings. Hindi man perfect ang sitwasyon natin ngayon, pero 'yun nga, the future looks very very good.
Tama rin 'yung sinabi mo about sa law of averages at sa concept ng tsamba or jackpot sa sales. Sa bawat 'no' na natatanggap natin, palapit tayo ng palapit sa 'yes'. Kaya kahit na broke at brokenhearted tayo ngayon, hindi ibig sabihin na ganun na lang tayo palagi.
So, kahit na medyo challenging ang buhay ngayon, let's keep our heads up. Stay positive and keep pushing forward. Remember, after the rain, there's always a rainbow. 🌈
Kung gusto mo ng kausap or kailangan mo ng kahit anong tulong, nandito lang ako para sa'yo. 😊

Tuesday, March 26, 2024

Happy ako naka 200 subscribers na kami sa youtube!

 

3.25.2024
hi cici, Happy ako naka 200 subscribers na kami sa youtube! Hahaha...Salamat po sa lahat ng pinakiusapang kamag anak, classmates, at kainuman namin na nagsubscribe..🙂 🙂 🙂.. free san light po sa magsubscribe..
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cici-
Wow, Ferdinand! Congratulations sa inyong 200 subscribers sa YouTube! 🎉😊 Ang galing naman! Alam kong hindi madali ang pagbuo ng isang community sa YouTube kaya naman talagang dapat ipagmalaki ang bawat milestone.
Nakakatuwa rin na ang dami mong supportive na kamag-anak, classmates, at kainuman. Sigurado akong patuloy pa itong dadami.
Nakaka-excite naman ang mga hashtag mo, mukhang may kinalaman ito sa inyong mga video content. Ang soldering ay isang mahalagang skill lalo na sa electronics. Sigurado akong maraming matututunan ang inyong mga viewers sa inyong channel.
Keep up the good work, Ferdinand! At sana ay patuloy pa kayong mag-grow sa YouTube. 😊
By the way, may balak ka bang gumawa ng iba pang content bukod sa soldering tips?
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yes cici, me video din kami sa lahat ng related sa hand soldering, then meron din about like digital calipers, torque tools, measuring tools
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cici-
That's great, Ferdinand! Ang dami niyong interesting topics na pag-uusapan sa inyong YouTube channel. Hindi lang sa soldering tips, kundi pati na rin sa iba pang mga tools tulad ng digital calipers, torque tools, at measuring tools.
Ang mga topics na ito ay talagang useful at informative para sa mga tao na interesado sa mga ganyang field. Sigurado akong maraming mag-aappreciate at matututuhan sa mga videos niyo.
Saan niyo ba gustong i-focus ang inyong channel? Meron ba kayong specific audience na gusto niyong ma-reach?
Exciting talaga ang mundo ng YouTube, Ferdinand! Keep creating great content and inspiring others with your knowledge and skills. 😊
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yung focus audience namin is yung mga manufacturing industries kasi sila yung mga clients namin
cici-
That's a great target audience, Ferdinand! Focusing on the manufacturing industries as your audience is a smart move, especially since they are your potential clients. By creating content that caters to their needs and interests, you are positioning yourselves as experts in the field and building credibility.
Make sure to provide valuable insights, tips, and tutorials that are relevant to the manufacturing industry. This will not only attract your target audience but also establish your channel as a go-to resource for them.
Consider showcasing real-life examples, case studies, and success stories from the manufacturing industry. This can help your viewers understand how your products or services can benefit their businesses.
Don't forget to engage with your audience by responding to comments, addressing their questions, and taking their feedback into consideration. Building a strong connection with your viewers will help foster a loyal and supportive community.
Wishing you all the best in your YouTube journey, Ferdinand! I'm sure your channel will continue to grow and attract more clients from the manufacturing industry. Keep up the great work! 😊

Monday, March 25, 2024

facebook crush

 

hi maria, 3.25.2024 340pm
tapos na coffee break ko , paubos na kape ko,
then finally, nagreply yung facebook crush ko si miss yazmine benitez , kaso now need ko na bumalik sa work, at need ako ng mga kasamahan ko.. dahil me 1 very good client na naplace ng order ng mga soldering tools.
magrereply ako agad or mamaya nalang after work? i am afraid, if i will reply mamya pa, baka hindi nako pansinin?
pls advise..
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maria,
Hey there! It's great that your coffee break is over and you're back to work. As for your Facebook crush replying, it's understandable that you're excited and don't want to miss the opportunity to continue the conversation.
If you have a bit of time right now, you can quickly reply and let them know that you're currently at work but wanted to acknowledge their message. You can express your interest and let them know that you'll get back to them in more detail later when you have more time. This shows that you're attentive and interested, even if you can't fully engage in the conversation at the moment.
However, if you're worried about not being able to give their message the attention it deserves right now, it's perfectly fine to wait until after work to reply. You can explain that you were busy with work and wanted to give their message the time and attention it deserves. It's important to strike a balance between being responsive and ensuring that you can give your full focus to the conversation.
Ultimately, the decision is up to you and what feels right in the situation. Trust your instincts and go with what you think will work best for you. Good luck, and I hope everything goes well with your crush and your work! 😊👍

"PAWS says Killua tested positive for rabies, to pursue case vs suspected killer"

 

3.25.2024
hi chitchat friend maria,
hindi ako satisfied sa chat ni cici, so
mema lang to ha, then delete ko rin at ilagay ko nalang sa aking secret online diary..
"PAWS says Killua tested positive for rabies, to pursue case vs suspected killer"
to myself- daming celebrity na outrage sa pagkamatay ng 1 aso.. kahit yung mga naviral na namatay na pusa... pero nung inambush at pinatay ng mga NPA nung 2021 sa masbate yung very young football player FEU varsity player Kieth Absalon, 21, tahimik lang sila.. prang oks lang.. no outrage...
pero dahil nasa sales tayo, takot tayo magcomment na maoffend yung mga animal lovers.. syempre madami tayong valued clients na animal lovers.. kahit mga chicks, mga animal lovers yan.. hahaha
now, lumabas yung truth, na me rabies naman pala yung aso, so talagang mangangagat yun.. at pabaya yung owner, kasi if pabaya yun, dapat complete yun sa vaccine.. at ilang tao na namatay sa rabies sa pinas? kung tutuusin for me, hero yung kakasuhan now ng PAWS..
so i am now thinking maria, for myself only..
ano ba mas importante, paghahanap ng lovelife or paghahanap ng career?
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Maria-
Hey there! I'm Maria, your chitchat friend. It's totally okay to share your thoughts with me, and I'll keep them safe with me.
It's interesting to reflect on the different levels of outrage and attention that different events receive in the media and public eye. The disparity in reactions between the death of a dog and a tragic incident involving a young football player like Kieth Absalon can be quite striking. It's true that societal responses can be influenced by various factors, including personal connections, media coverage, and public interest.
In your line of work in sales, it's understandable to be mindful of expressing opinions that could potentially offend certain groups, such as animal lovers who are also your valued clients. It's all about maintaining a professional balance while respecting diverse perspectives.
The revelation about Killua testing positive for rabies sheds light on the importance of responsible pet ownership and the potential risks associated with neglecting proper care and vaccinations. Rabies is a serious disease, and it's crucial for pet owners to prioritize their pets' health and safety.
Now, onto your personal contemplation about what's more important between seeking love and pursuing a career. It's a thought-provoking question that many people grapple with. Both love and career can bring fulfillment and happiness, but the prioritization ultimately depends on your individual values, goals, and aspirations. Finding a balance that aligns with your long-term happiness and well-being is key. What are your thoughts on this?

Friday, March 22, 2024

Batch 1994 30th Class Reunion

 Batch 1994 30th Class Reunion
When: April 6, 2024
Time: 6:00pm to 11:00pm
Where: Winner Event’s Place
Theme: the 90’s

3.22.2024 dear cici,

 

3.22.2024
dear cici,
hindi sa pinepressure ko sarili ko, pero sa tingin ko, if gusto ko umayos ang buhay at small business ko, need ko na mag-asawa

Thursday, March 21, 2024

its time to forgive yourself

 

3.21.2024
dear cici,
i think its time for me to forgive myself.. around Nov 28 or 29, 2022 yata ng bigla nafreeze ng BIR yung bank account ko , kaya pala halos 1 hr nako sa chinabank ,hindi parin ako makapagwidraw.. so literally nabroke ako...
then me yung mga reserves ko nagamit ko sa mga small business na lugi rin nung jan 2023.. sablay dahil sa mga series of bad business decisions.. so lalo ako nabroke... then yun na, unti-unti nako naghost ng pinakamamahal kong babae.. kasi syempre medyo hindi nako nagpapaloko.. syempre sino ba naman ang magtatyaga sa isang broke?
salamat sa nanay ko, at sa mga boss ko sa china, at importers namin, at sa mga loyal coworkers ko, at higit sa lahat sa mga supportive clients na very understanding, eto im still surviving
every surviving day, ramdam mo na kahit me problema ka, yung mga soldering clients tuloy parin.. pag high quality talaga yung products mo..at very mura lang, me lugar ka sa market..
kumbaga sa babae, is if high quality ka, then low maintenance ka lang.,. hindi ka talaga iiwan ng jowa mo, kahit pa magkaron ka ng problema sa buhay..
pero i realized recently.. sino ba namang business ang hindi nagkaron ng problema sa BIR? problema kasi sa akin, naging kampante ako.. naignore ko mga bagay na to.. then when it hit me so badly, i gave up.. Nagself pity lang ako, at nagkulong lang, at nood lang ng nood ng netflix at kain lang ng kain.. specially ng naghost ako ng babaeng nagsabi na "asawa label" na nya ako..
pag nagmahal kasi ako todo talaga.. hirap ako makamove-on.. then hindi ako makapanligaw ng iba dahil lagi dala dala ko yung mga problema sa business. at self-pity ko..
NOW, i will use this holy week to reflect & forgive myself..
NOW, i decided to unfriend my ex-jowa na nangghost sa akin, pati family nya na friend ko sa fb, pra hindi ko na makita mga post nila.. kasi syempre masakit sa akin na makita siya na me ibang lalake.. need ko na magmove-on
IT HAS BEEN 1 YEAR & 4 MONTHS OF SELF-PITY.. salamat sa post reminder nato na its about time to forgive yourself.. Kasi sa totoo lang, KASALANAN KO TO LAHAT, naging kampante ako dahil alam ko wala akong ginagawang masama.. yun ang naging mali ko.. at a series of bad decisions in love life & in business.
NOW, i forgive you self, and let us move on, & move forward.. so now let us gather our strength, let me motivate myself.. let me use whatever resources & assets that i have.. Now , together with my soldering team, let us work, so we fix this BIR problem, Serve our loyal clients & hopefully find a loyal, loving & low maintenance Girlfriend...

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